Tuesday, December 22, 2020

Tao Te Ching 19

 Tao Te Ching 19


Forget about knowledge and wisdom, and people will be a hundred times better off.

Throw away charity and righteousness, and people will return to brotherly love.

Throw away profit and greed, and there won't be any thieves.

These three are superficial and aren't enough to keep us at the center of the circle, so we must also:

Embrace simplicity.

Put others first.

Desire little.


Lao Tzu


Monday, December 21, 2020

Tao Te Ching 18

 Tao Te Ching 18


When the great Tao is abandoned, charity and righteousness appear.

When intellectualism arises, hypocrisy is close behind.

When there is strife in the family unit, people talk about 'brotherly love'.

When the country falls into chaos, politicians talk about 'patriotism'.


Lao Tzu


Saturday, December 19, 2020

Tao Te Ching 17

 Tao Te Ching 17


The best leaders are those the people hardly know exist.

The next best is a leader who is loved and praised.

Next comes the one who is feared.

The worst one is the leader who is despised.

If you don't trust the people, they will become untrustworthy.

The best leaders value their words, and use them sparingly.

When she has accomplished her task, the people say, 'Amazing: we did it, all by ourselves!'.


Lao Tzu

Friday, December 18, 2020

Tao Te Ching 16

 Tao Te Ching 16


If you can empty your mind of all thoughts your heart will embrace the tranquility of peace.

Watch the workings of all of creation, but contemplate their return to the source.

All creatures in the universe return to the point where they began.

Returning to the source is tranquility because we submit to Heaven's mandate.

Returning to Heaven's mandate is called being constant.

Knowing the constant is called 'enlightenment'.

Not knowing the constant is the source of evil deeds because we have no roots.

By knowing the constant we can accept things as they are.

By accepting things as they are, we become impartial.

By being impartial, we become one with Heaven.

By being one with Heaven, we become one with Tao.

Being one with Tao, we are no longer concerned about losing our life because we know the Tao is constant and we are one with the Tao.


Lao Tzu


Thursday, December 17, 2020

Tao Te Ching 15

 Tao Te Ching 15


The sages of old were profound and knew the ways of subtlety and discernment.

Their wisdom is beyond our comprehension.

Because their knowledge was far superior I can only give a poor description.

They were careful as someone crossing a frozen stream in winter.

Alert as if surrounded on all sides by the enemy.

Courteous as a guest.

Fluid as melting ice.

Whole as an uncarved block of wood.

Receptive as a valley.

Turbid as muddied water.

Who can be still until their mud settles and the water is cleared by itself?

Can you remain tranquil until right action occurs by itself?

The Master doesn't seek fulfillment.

For only those who are not full are able to be used which brings the feeling of completeness.


Lao Tzu


Friday, December 4, 2020

Tao Te Ching 14

 Tao Te Ching 14

Look for it, and it can't be seen.

Listen for it, and it can't be heard.

Grasp for it, and it can't be taught.

These three cannot be further described, so we treat them as The One.

Its highest is not bright.

Its depths are not dark.

Unending, unnameable, it returns to nothingness.

Formless forms, and imageless images, subtle, beyond all understanding.

Approach it and you will not see a beginning; follow it and there will be no end.

When we grasp the Tao of the ancient ones, we can use it to direct our life today.

To know the ancient origin of Tao: this is the beginning of wisdom.

Lao Tzu

Tuesday, October 20, 2020

Tao Te Ching 13

 Tao Te Ching 13

Success is as dangerous as failure, and we are often our own worst enemy.

What does it mean that success is as dangerous as failure?

He who is superior is also someone's subordinate.

Receiving favour and losing it both cause alarm.

That is what is meant by success is as dangerous as failure.

What does it mean that we are often our own worst enemy?

The reason I have an enemy is because I have "self".

If I no longer had a "self", I would no longer have an enemy.

Love the whole world as if it were your self; then you will truly care for all things.

Lao Tzu


In some ways I agree with this.  But I know that it is impossible to truly love if you don't know what love is.  One must learn what love is and then fill themselves with love so it can spill out into the world.

Much love,

Mother Tory

Monday, October 12, 2020

Tao Te Ching 12

 Tao Te Ching 12

Five colours blind the eye.

Five notes deafen the ear.

Five flavours make the palate go stale.

Too much activity deranges the mind.

Too much wealth causes crime.

The Master acts on what she feels and not what she sees.

She shuns the latter, and prefers to seek the former.

Lao Tzo


The passage could spark a huge debate in today's world.

Much love,

Mother Tory

Friday, October 9, 2020

Tao Te Ching 11

 Tao Te Ching 11

Thirty spokes are joined together in a wheel, but it is the center hole that allows the wheel to function.

We mould clay into a pot, but it is the emptiness inside that makes the vessel useful.

We fashion wood for a house, but it is the emptiness inside that makes it liveable.

We work with the substantial, but the emptiness is what we use.

Lao Tzu

Thursday, October 8, 2020

Tao Te Ching 10

 Tao Te Ching 10

Nurture the darkness of your soul until you become whole.

Can you do this and not fail?

Can you focus your life-breath until you become supple as a newborn child?

While you cleanse your inner vision will you be found without fault?

Can you love people and lead them without forcing your will on them?

When Heaven gives and takes away can you be content with the outcome?

When you understand all things can you step back from your own understanding?

Giving birth and nourishing, making without possessing, expecting nothing in return.

To grow, yet not to control; This is the mysterious virtue.

Lao Tzu


Tuesday, October 6, 2020

Tao Te Ching 9

 Tao Te Ching 9

It is easier to carry an empty cup than one that is filled to the brim.

The sharper the knife the easier it is to dull.

The more wealth you possess the harder it is to protect.

Pride brings its own trouble.

When you have accomplished your goal simply walk away.

This is the pathway to Heaven.

Lao Tzu


I don't want to be a Negative Nancy here, but this passage makes me feel like "Heaven" might be safe and boring.  Your thoughts?

Much love,

Mother Tory

Monday, September 28, 2020

Tao Te Ching 8

 Tao Te Ching 8

The supreme good is like water, which benefits all of creation without trying to compete with it.

It gathers in unpopular places.

Thus it is like the Tao.

The location makes the dwelling good.

Depth of understanding makes the mind good.

A kind heart makes the giving good.

Integrity makes the government good.

Accomplishment makes your labours good.

Proper timing makes a decision good.

Only when there is no competition will we all live in peace.

Lao Tzu


My takeaway: Do right, think right, feel right and life will be good. Share when it feels good to do so, act when it feels good to do so. Don't compare yourself to others, don't try to take what they have, do what needs to be done to make your life right for you.

Much love,

Mother Tory

Tuesday, September 15, 2020

Tao Te Ching 7

 Tao Te Ching 7

The Tao of Heaven is eternal, and the earth is long enduring.

Why are they long enduring?

They do not live for themselves, thus they are present for all beings.

The Master puts herself last; and finds herself in the place of authority.

She detaches herself from all things; therefore she is united with all things.

She gives no thought to self.

She is perfectly fulfilled.

Lao Tzu

Monday, September 14, 2020

Tao Te Ching 6

 Tao Te Ching 6

The spirit of emptiness is immortal.

It is called the Great Mother because it gives birth to Heaven and Earth.

It is like a vapour, barely seen but always present.

Use it effortlessly.

Lao Tzu

Thursday, September 10, 2020

Tao Te Ching 5

 Tao Te Ching 5

Heaven and Earth are impartial; they treat all of creation as straw dogs.

The Master doesn't take sides; she treats everyone like a straw dog.

The space between Heaven and Earth is like a bellows; it is empty, yet has not lost its power.

The more it is used, the more it produces; the more you talk of it, the less you comprehend.

It is better not to speak of things you do not understand.

Lao Tzu

Tuesday, September 8, 2020

Tao Te Ching 4

 Tao Te Ching 4

The Tao is like an empty container: it can never be emptied and can never be filled.

Infinitely deep, it is the source of all things.

It dulls the sharp, unties the knotted, shades the lighted, and unites all of creation with dust

It is hidden but always present.

I don't know who gave birth to it.

It is older than the concept of God.

Saturday, September 5, 2020

Tao Te Ching 3

 Tao Te Ching 3


If you over-esteem talented individuals, people will become overly competitive.

If you overvalue possessions, people will begin to steal.

Do not display your treasures or people will become envious.

The Master leads by emptying people's minds, filling their bellies, weakening their ambitions, and making them become strong.

Preferring simplicity and freedom from desires, avoiding the pitfalls of knowledge and wrong action.

For those who practice not-doing, everything will fall into place.


Lao Tzu


I feel a bit conflicted by this passage.  I know that unhappiness and discontent is caused by wanting something that a person feels they can't have, so everyone would be happier if they wanted less.  Materialism has gotten a bit out of control.  But I also believe that everyone can have what they want if they are willing to do what needs to be done to get it.  It worries me that some will take some of this as saying that someone else should take care of you, but what it's really saying is to simply do right, choose happiness, and "God", "Universe", or whatever will line things up so you have what you need.  So stay relaxed.  What do you think?


Mother Tory

Thursday, September 3, 2020

Tao Te Ching 2

 Tao Te Ching 2


When people see things as beautiful, ugliness is created.

When people see things as good, evil is created.

Being and non-being produce each other.

Difficult and easy complement each other.

Long and short define each other.

High and low oppose each other.

Fore and aft follow each other.

Therefore the Master can act without doing anything and teach without saying a word.

Things come her way and she does not stop them; things leave and she lets them go.

She has without possessing, and acts without any expectations.

When her work is done, she takes no credit.

That is why it will last forever.

Lao Tzu


I have to say, I love the way "Master" was combined with the feminine.  What do you think of this passage?

Mother Tory

Wednesday, September 2, 2020

Tao Te Ching 1

 Tao Te Ching 1


The tao that can be described is not the eternal Tao.

The name that can be spoken is not the eternal Name.

The nameless is the boundary of Heaven and Earth.

The name is the mother of creation.

Freed from desire, you can see the hidden mystery.

By having desire, you can only see what is visibly real.

Yet mystery and reality emerge from the same source.

This source is called darkness.

Darkness born from darkness.

The beginning of all understanding.


Lao Tzu


What do you think it means?

Mother Tory

Wednesday, July 8, 2020

A Letter to People Wearing Face Masks

Dear Stranger,

     I don't know if you know this, but the purpose of your mask is to protect others.  They offer little to no personal protection.  Especially if they are pulled down to talk, if you are not wearing safety goggles, and/or you are not washing your hands prior to touching your face or eating.  Thank you for your sacrifice.

    If you are wearing one of those disposable surgical type masks, please change them every 20 to 30 minutes.  They become clogged with toxins very quickly when in a non-sterile environment.  I don't want you to get sick while protecting others.

     If you are wearing a cloth mask, please wash and dry them every day.  They grow mold and bacteria very quickly because of the dampness caused by breathing into them.  Again, please don't make yourself sick trying to protect others.

     The last thing I'd like to say is: please don't glare at or make snide comments to people not wearing masks.  With millions of people suffering from non-obvious medical conditions, you might be causing a lot of fear and anxiety for someone you are trying to protect.

     Thank you for taking the time to read this.

Much love,

Mother Tory

Tuesday, March 3, 2020

If you could invent anything, what would it be?

If you could invent anything, what would it be?

To be honest, I'm not the inventive type.

So I'm curious, for real, what would you invent if money, time, knowledge were not a factor?

Monday, March 2, 2020

What's On Your Bedside Table?

What's on your bedside table?

Wanna know what's on mine?  I'll tell you anyway. LOL

LOTS of books.

A lamp.

Phone charger.

Kindle.

Religious altar with an antique mirror, cards, and incense burner.

Your turn.  Care to share?

Tuesday, February 25, 2020

What's the Wildest Story You Tell At Parties?

What's the wildest story you tell at parties?

Believe it or not, the thing no one ever believes me about isn't a story.

It's the simple fact that I have grandchildren even though my own youngest child is only four.

I don't know why no one believes me; women are usually fertile for almost 40 years, many women start having babies young, and many women these days are having babies in their 40's.  Near as I can gather, people have a hard time believing that a woman would choose to have a baby after having a grandchild and so close to having all the kids out of the house.

I've got to tell you, though, I was never one of those people who only wanted a certain number of kids.  I wanted to have as many as I had.  I never looked forward to the day I was on my own.  Without someone to care for, I have my doubts that I would do the normal everyday living thing.  I'd probably wander off and starve to death.

As a matter of fact, when I was 13, my life plan was to become self-employed, buy a large piece of property, and have a lot of kids who helped grow food and add rooms to our home so they could stay with me until I was no more.

I didn't quite make it because I started my family too soon and ended up being addicted to being in love. 

Now I'm 43, only had 6 kids because men became involved, and I'm only just getting my business going.  Not even close to buying property and, now that most of my kids are grown, they're already doing their own things.

So....

What's your story?